Calming Down

I'm calming down a little from the diagnosis. I still don't want to deal with it. Dave and I went to dinner tonight and made up a list of behaviors that have to occur for her to live at home. I don't want her to feel abandoned. I can't go back to the way things were. I love her with all my heart and would give my life for her if someone threatened her. But I can't allow her to be abusive like she was. I really don't know how to handle her, though.